Elay Understood

🍦🍧🍨 💛💙Together Forever with my Family💛💙 My Family My BEAUTIFUL Family!!!! Today, we went out for Ice-cream My Husband surprised us with frozen treats! - We went for a walk and the walk led us to going to Baskin Robins / Duncan Doughnuts Together outside Dining in the public and open air The air was open and clear No masks were needed (at that particular time) because it was only us three outdoors We sat around the table (as you can see) - A nice, slow and steady pace of cars slowed down and around to the drive through to place orders Nice to see others going around readying to order a delicious treat Even saw a woman driving a silver SUV with a doggy in the back seat🐶🚙 The windows were both down on driver's side. 😊 I think the dog was happy I’m going to assume the dog was happy - I want to thank my husband for planning an ice-cream surprise for us all - Thought it was cool seeing a small group of pre-teen kids (accompanied...

Keep moving forward on my social media is the daily goal It can be hard and difficult many times Yes, this is a real job Taking it seriously is important . The thing I like about working online, at home is the creative freedom I have I am very thankful for the world wide web and alllllll of the good things it offers . There is room for everyone on here to benefit There is room for everyone on here to gain success (What is the level of your success?) That is the key That is the answer . 👗📓📚📬📮📝💼

https://youtu.be/uiJCDw780U8 Brief Blurb of what this video is about. Okay, my first video in this series is called: Colorism Pt.1 Seeing Myself Inwardly – The Introduction and the definition of colorism. I didn’t know colorism was a thing I didn’t know racism was a thing I didn’t even know that people had different colors Like if there were different shades of skins For example, like black, white, yellow, brown, peach and so on It wasn’t until I got to 2nd grade then I realized that I was black I knew I was black as a race but didn’t know that I was also black as in a so-called secondary race/class of people...(frown face) It wasn’t until my alleged family and I moved out from the “hood” and into the suburbs that I realized that I was black. Not only did I get well informed that I was black. I was deeply informed of exactly what kind of black person I really classified into. In second grade, I learned I was “light-skinned” Instead of le...

On the first of January, I kinda made my goals to get 5,000 subscribers on YouTube by January 1st, 2021! I aimed high, so I don't feel bad or dissipointed in myself that the original amount wasnt achieced. I made it to 4,000! 🥳 Taking it one bit at a time. So very happy to be here at this moment. My husband and son are both so happy for me. I am doing my best to grow my social media platform all across the board. Personally speaking, the reflection of my YouTube success is based on how far up the ladder I want to go. As of right now, I beleive I am successful. Briefcase in my hand and a Pink power suit on! That's how I feel about myself and my overall social media platforms. What a glorious way to start out the year!😍🥳🥰😎

Moving forward is simply just that. You want to move forward in your life ?  Then, here's all of the reasons why and how. How's 1) Be yourself. 🌸 2) Celebrate you!😀 3) Wear clothes and things that BEST reflect who you know you are inside. 4) Work on your best efforts Not to Lie to yourself.❤️ Why's 1) It would be a total sim into YOURSELF IF you aren't True to yourself. 2) It makes you open and receptive to others around you. 3) It becomes easer to absorb side bar sneak disses from others around you WHO are indeed talking about you in a bad way. 4) From personal experience, I've known it to be the ultimate Freedom!!🌸💥💥🥰                💥DON'T LIE TO YOURSELF💥

🍵🛸 Drinking Coffee in the morning, at the table. Okay, that's enough of that😬  🌾Time to do the laundry. (taking a few sips of coffee)  🌾Ewww, it's Cold 😬🛸 Must  heat it up...because something's Not right. Not right with my coffee. Sometimes, like every once in a while, I need to heat it up. This is one of the days my coffee needs to be heated. 🔥🥵🍵☕ . You know, theirs a chill in the air this morning in Georgia. 🦚 Coffee, warmth of a blanket, good coffee, good tv and some kind of food to eat. 🍳🥐🥞🍞🥯🌾 ▫️Elay .

The way she made the biscuits made my stomach hurl. The kitchen was dirty, her hair wasn't combed and the girl didn't even have a hair net on. I went to the manager and she looked the same. The same as the one chick serving me. Wall on the clock said it was time to leave but I had to stay despite of everything.  Despite of everything because in a few ticks and a few there was someone coming in to see me. Coming in to see me. Lil ole me. Made me happy and beyond the words of happy but the thing is as my butt sinks slowly into the leather cushion and the taps of the computer keys fill the screen as sweet words collide. Collide as the ice is doing while blending into the warm cola of my thinned out drink. Thinned out drink? Or should I say watered down. Dang, my drink turning flat.  Damn. Watered down like the funky finger waves in that ladies head who's sitting across from me. Dressed in all Purple, over there looking like freaking Barney. Got-damn! Got-daamm! GOT.....wel...

If I fall in love again That right there gonna be bananas! If I fall in love again Its ginna be unbelievable If I fall in love again, Damn WHEN I fall ♡ in love again... Im hopin its with y♡u. Update: Picture incerted on: 02/21/2021

The joys of being a PUBLISHED AUTHOR!  You can purchase my novel through Amazon.  The title of the novel is called: Ertifferrah

Love the skin you're in. Update: 02/21/2021 I remember making this post a little bit. Like the part when choosing a picture. The reason this picture was chosen is the energy I got from viewing the picture. Seeing the black, contrasting image in my mind, right now gives me a smile. A smile that slowly pulls across my beautiful face. (I love my face) Thank you GOD for my face. (side note). The young woman in the photo is an example of self-acceptance. The photo states that she is who she is and that she is quite comfortable in herself and within her body. Not only does her smile say it, her shirt reads it as well. People, of Blogger Vill, I want to thank you for trusting the process in accepting your life and who you are. This is the best freedom one can have. I thank you for your time.

What am i  going to do now...? it's time to go to lunch and I'm not even hungry !! Oh, what's a girl to do? Now, tell me what's a hungry little girl to do? I brought my crackers, and my freeze-pops mealed. Waaah! (frown face) They melted in the car. I had them in the glove compartment, was hiding them from Charlie and I forgot them. Yeah,I forgot about them. Charlie's gonna be mad with me, yeah Charlie is gonna be upset, because that's his car and not mines. But I will rebuttal and answer with a smart Alix answer by telling him that it was his fault for even letting me borrow the car so I could take my puppy named Choppa-style, to the vets. Which was all indeed true. We arranged that I drop Charlie off to work and I take the car so I could take Choppa-style to the vets. He's got something stuck in his belly and its causing him so much grief. (Frown face) I knew I shouldn't of fed him those extra large, extra grand cupcakes. ....lol its not re...

This is a story or should I say, "tail" (pun intended) of a precious kitty that goes by the name Tuffy.  How he lives up to the name on a daily basis is shear wonderment. Effortlessly walking through life with hardly a care in the world and showing next to little concern for his owners who seem not to want him around anyways, Tuffy continues to do what he does best.  That is until one day he brought home one too many snacks from outside. Paws down, this cat has the beat of the street streaming through his lively claws. As he unruly takes life by the reigns and commands what he wants or (clearing my throat) claims he deserves in life. Taking nothing fur (pun intended) granted, this furry feline puts his owners in quite a funny predicament as one if his many snacks leaves a long trail if messy evidence. His snacking voyages unfortunately lead him to be suspect for a possible bunny rabbit murder! Tuffy the tuff kitty is now facing a dilemma to live inside or outside the fa...

The Fourth Amendment is an Awesome Freedom   Let us take the time out and genuinely say a big thank you to our Forefathers for establishing the Constitution.  If it was not for them and their devout persistence towards such an amazing cause, many of us would more than likely be in a bad way or for some, an even far much worse way.  On a lighter note before proceeding, here is a little snippet of encouragement to the ones in the struggle, let’s be glad to even exist and remember, as long as there is breath in your body, that means there is still life, which in turn, represents hope.  You’re situations will get better!  Keep fighting the good fight like our Forefathers.  Way to go guys!     The Fourth Amendment rocks, in the opinion of many people because it allows the freedom of privacy to all civil people across the United States.  Meaning that we can have the freedom and privacy, we all so deserve within our homes, to which ...

Call me anytime is an understatement Cuz when I called u one time U seemed agitated People don't care bout cho feelings, yo Espically when it doesn't FIT in they schedule. Im so miserable So lonely, so I took the time to see a psychologist But it didn't do me no beddah So now im playing Russian Roulette with a stolen gun. Praying hopefully if I time it right the Lord Jesus Christ  SAVES MY SOUL (please save my soul) But I doubt it not Because of the lives of the sinners Are usually the ones people forgot! Update: Photo incerted on 02/21/2021

Shes got kaleidoscope resolution She really think she sees whats going on But she really cant see whats going on She cant even see her hand right in front of her Man the list goes on and on and on My peoples in the struggle put ya handa out If you sick and tired of needing hand outs When you've learned ya lesson in -Maybe the hard way When push gave into shove The battles to ta dealings -and the lessons to ya stories You don't want to calibrate no recalection  That's when you decided to take it into a new direction Cuz in life at one point you got com-fort- able Seeing the world through kaleidoscope glasses. |________ So he got mad that u dissed him But he still be watching ME from a distance He probably wondering whats happening Well if he kep his HEAd Out his ash crack Instead of looking at our invalid situation through them GLasses He could bluntly see there's no more connection WE could NEVAH go back to that old school -when we was kinkin ...

You know, I really think nature is mixed up. It rains like the dickens first five weeks of Spring. It rains and rains and floods the backyards and bascememts of peoples lives.... Then the pretty flowers and grass and cute little bugs and jazz come out in the month if May. Aw_wwwww soo CUTE, how EVERYTHING is, then, bum, buum , Buuuuuum. Oh no the month of June comes soaring in on eagle wings and along comes with it the sun the rays and all of its heatstroke. Blag :( June comes in and singes the entire upper hemisphere if the planet and we all pray for rain.... Totally scratching my head ... -Flippin yaaaawn. (Rolling my Flippin eyeballs) Hey, Mother Nature um like did you get your wires crossed? Or is it I'm the only person on this watery planet to think that Mother Nature should divide up SOME of the rain from the spring time and PORTION some of it for throughout the summer. I'm just saying guys...Lol, big flipping LOL AND HA! HA! HA! I mean like, Hello?! Aren't w...

Back n the day..... Remember wen u used ti say That u loved me bay And that u wiuld nevah leave me-e? -Oh well baybe lets Updated on: 02/21/2021 photo incerted

It  was somethin bout him That I wanted to get to know But everytime we me it. B touch an go It's like the brotha really didn't wanna -let his feelings show And by the time he finally came to it I had already hit the door Its like he saw it in my eyes My fate, my destiny Cuz when I told em I wanna link up He said I proly wouldn't be there And I shook my head and doubted Told em I didnt believe dat And so then n about a few days My a** was audy 3 yeah He Still dont know what he means to me I think about him n the night time Constantly Twisting up ways to see him like Constantine These feelings yo I hav inside Man I can't deny I wanna b wit chu s I bad that im about to cry It  was somethin bout him That I wanted to get to know But everytime we me it. B touch an go It's like the broth really didn't wanna -let his feelings show And by the time he finally came to it I had already hit the door Update: 02/21/2021 Picture incerted

The come up b so fast The "change" come so quickly When the lighting taps yo ash Update: Picture incerted in blog on: 02/21/2021

13 hooks.......April 7th 2013 One leg on the trail 13 hooks in me momma always told me this life would be the death of me I'm halfway tired and my eye swoll shut They say Jesus coming back well I wish him luck because when He touch down all He gon see is a struggle As I Lay half dead on this concrete   puddle It's the concrete blood rain The season of un relentless PAIN I remember pastor use to talk about the latter rain He use to hoop and holler talking about Lord You reign over birds ,seas, air, skies Go on He's the best just give Him a try Ain't got a lot of life in me I'm about to die Here comes the rain I see the Candyman hook line sickle and all (I'm bout to die... One leg on the trail 13 hooks in me momma always told me this life would be the death of me I'm halfway tired and my eye swoll shut They say Jesus coming back well I wish him luck because when He touch down all He gon see is a struggle As I Lay half dead on this concrete  ...